Overseasidol.com — On August 22, Xu Lisha publicly revealed the timeline of her relationship with actor Xu Kai.
She said the two first met in 2021 during a birthday gathering.
They began dating shortly after, briefly broke up due to misunderstandings, but reconciled in August 2022 with serious plans, including meeting each other’s families.
Trouble began in December 2022 when Xu Kai and actress Zhao Qing were rumored to have entered a hotel together.
The news left Xu Lisha heartbroken and sick. She admitted to posting anonymously about her struggles, but her identity was later exposed.
According to her, Xu Kai never personally addressed the matter and only relied on PR statements.
In 2023, while filming in Qingdao, Xu Kai allegedly pursued another actress, hiding his relationship status while trying to get close to her.
Although rejected, he continued his advances while simultaneously trying to reconcile with Xu Lisha.
This dual behavior, according to Xu Lisha, worsened their already fragile relationship.
By October 2023, Xu Kai reconnected with Xu Lisha and claimed he had not met anyone new.
However, private chat records between them were leaked among fans. After this, Xu Kai reportedly lashed out and insulted Xu Lisha harshly.
Xu Lisha stated she endured the situation for the sake of Xu Kai’s career. But after never receiving a proper apology or closure, she decided to speak out.
She added that during their entire relationship, she never received genuine support or compensation, and the only money transfer from Xu Kai happened under special circumstances.
